Sometimes you don’t ask for things….
and you get them anyway, usually bad surprises sometimes good,
so yeah life gives us things we don’t ask for
with that being said, whats the point of all this radio silence, from you, from him, from her, from them.
this social practice we call “politeness” composed of leaving things unsaid, emotional suppression, lying to one self, lying to others, when there is a million billion things going on through one’s head
but for some reason the only thing entity that is allowed to bring surprises and speak their mind is life
well fuck that,
call me crazy but i think theres more reason in confronting who or what hurt you and telling things and truths they didn’t ask for.
maybe it is polite and mature to take the high road.
but life wasn’t polite or mature when it happened was it?
there is a misconception a common misconception that life comes in the shape of people who wrong you.
but that’s the thing about life, it doesn’t really have a body or a face, it isn’t like us.
life is more of an emotion, and they only way to deal with it, it’s not ignoring it but confronting it and getting the answers you need
so you can make sense of it and yourself and not be surprised by life again.
cause “politeness” thats is some made up bullshit people made to hide behind cowardice.
life is real and real is rude.
thats why it’s called a rude awakening